# Where do things stand today between you and that person?

*A question from the evening ritual · Social appetite · One tap · https://insenia.app/questions/where-do-things-stand-today-between-you-and-that-person*

The choices: It's settled, It's up in the air, It got tenser, Not on my mind today.

Answer it tonight, with this question first: https://insenia.app/tonight?q=where-do-things-stand-today-between-you-and-that-person

## How it is answered

One tap from a few options. You see three or four short options and tap the one that is closest to your day. A short list is faster than a sentence and still tells the app what kind of thing happened, not just how much.

When it is asked: A question chosen for tonight because of what you have answered before, what is going on in your life or the pattern that is forming. Depth 2: A question that asks for a moment of honest looking back on the day.

## Why Insenia asks this

Where connection measures how close you felt, social appetite asks what you wanted and what actually happened. Did you need more people or more quiet, did you have a real conversation or only logistics, who did you think about and not reach.

The questions adapt to what is going on in your life. Someone carrying a change is asked who has been carrying it with them, and someone missing a person is asked how the space they used to fill felt today.

## What it tends to reveal

Two weeks of answers usually show the person's own rhythm between company and quiet. Some people see a clear pull toward quiet after busy days, others see the heavier days as the ones without a friendly voice.

The names behind who got the best of you and who did you think about but did not reach tend to repeat. Seeing the same friend appear three times in two weeks is a pattern, not a prompt.

## In Croatian

Kako danas stoji ono između tebe i te osobe? (Smirilo se, Visi u zraku, Zaoštrilo se, Danas ne mislim na to)

## Questions near this one

- [Whose company did you enjoy today?](https://insenia.app/insenia/questions/whose-company-did-you-enjoy-today.md)
- [What did you need more of today?](https://insenia.app/insenia/questions/what-did-you-need-more-of-today.md)
- [How connected were you today to the people who matter?](https://insenia.app/insenia/questions/how-connected-were-you-today-to-the-people-who-matter.md)
- [All questions about social appetite](https://insenia.app/insenia/questions/social-appetite.md)

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