Connection · One tap

When did you last have a conversation that really filled you up?

The choices: Today, Recently, A long time ago, I can't remember.

Answer it tonightOpens the five of tonight with this question first. No email.

How it is answered

One tap from a few options. You see three or four short options and tap the one that is closest to your day. A short list is faster than a sentence and still tells the app what kind of thing happened, not just how much.

When it is asked:A question chosen for tonight because of what you have answered before, what is going on in your life or the pattern that is forming.Depth 1:An easy question that takes a second to answer and asks nothing uncomfortable.

Why Insenia asks this

Connection is measured about twice a week with a slider that runs from alone in it to connected. The follow up questions are about the people themselves: whose company was warmest, who made you feel seen, when a conversation last filled you up.

This is not a count of contacts. A full room can feel lonely and a single call can carry a whole day, and the question leaves that judgement to the person answering.

What it tends to reveal

After two weeks, days with a real conversation often sit differently in the calendar than days without one. The gap between the two is what Insenia measures, not whether the person is social enough.

Over time the relationships that take up the most space in your head become visible as a list rather than a feeling. For many people that list is shorter and more repetitive than they assumed.

In Croatian

Kad si zadnji put imao razgovor koji te stvarno napunio? (Danas, Ovih dana, Davno, Ne sjećam se)

On the App Store and Google Play

Tonight can be the first evening.

Free on iPhone and Android. The first five questions are ready the moment the app opens.

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