How it is answered
A five step balance. You pick one of five positions between two sides, such as It took and It gave. Some questions are about a tilt rather than an amount, and five steps capture the tilt without asking for false precision.
When it is asked:A question chosen for tonight because of what you have answered before, what is going on in your life or the pattern that is forming.Depth 2:A question that asks for a moment of honest looking back on the day.
Why Insenia asks this
Avoidance is a thematic dimension, so the wording changes from evening to evening and the answers feed the profile rather than a time series. The questions are small and specific: a message left unanswered on purpose, a task put off since this morning, a screen reached for to stop thinking.
Nothing here is asked as an accusation. One of the questions in this dimension is whether there is a question you would rather not be asked tonight, and no is a complete answer.
What it tends to reveal
After a couple of weeks the things being postponed tend to cluster around a few themes, often a conversation, a money matter or a decision. Seeing the same category appear several times is usually more informative than any single evening.
The app also notices how a hard moment was met, whether by leaning in, stepping back or distracting. It records the mix as it is and does not grade it.
In Croatian
Kad je danas došlo ono teško, prema tome ili od toga? (Od toga / Prema tome)