Asked when it fits

Avoidance

What was pushed to tomorrow, left unanswered or kept busy around, asked without judgement.

Why Insenia asks this

Avoidance is a thematic dimension, so the wording changes from evening to evening and the answers feed the profile rather than a time series. The questions are small and specific: a message left unanswered on purpose, a task put off since this morning, a screen reached for to stop thinking.

Nothing here is asked as an accusation. One of the questions in this dimension is whether there is a question you would rather not be asked tonight, and no is a complete answer.

What it tends to reveal

After a couple of weeks the things being postponed tend to cluster around a few themes, often a conversation, a money matter or a decision. Seeing the same category appear several times is usually more informative than any single evening.

The app also notices how a hard moment was met, whether by leaning in, stepping back or distracting. It records the mix as it is and does not grade it.

15 questions about avoidance

On the App Store and Google Play

Tonight can be the first evening.

Free on iPhone and Android. The first five questions are ready the moment the app opens.

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