Avoidance · Yes or no

Is there a message you've been leaving unanswered on purpose?

The choices: Yes or no.

Answer it tonightOpens the five of tonight with this question first. No email.

How it is answered

Yes or no. You tap yes or no, and no is a complete answer. Many of the smallest and most telling moments of a day are either there or not, and a single tap respects that.

When it is asked:A question chosen for tonight because of what you have answered before, what is going on in your life or the pattern that is forming.Depth 1:An easy question that takes a second to answer and asks nothing uncomfortable.

Why Insenia asks this

Avoidance is a thematic dimension, so the wording changes from evening to evening and the answers feed the profile rather than a time series. The questions are small and specific: a message left unanswered on purpose, a task put off since this morning, a screen reached for to stop thinking.

Nothing here is asked as an accusation. One of the questions in this dimension is whether there is a question you would rather not be asked tonight, and no is a complete answer.

What it tends to reveal

After a couple of weeks the things being postponed tend to cluster around a few themes, often a conversation, a money matter or a decision. Seeing the same category appear several times is usually more informative than any single evening.

The app also notices how a hard moment was met, whether by leaning in, stepping back or distracting. It records the mix as it is and does not grade it.

In Croatian

Postoji li poruka koju namjerno ostavljaš bez odgovora?

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Tonight can be the first evening.

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